Bruno Bettelheim

Psychoanalyst Austrian-American 1903 – 1990

Analyzed psychological trauma and childhood development; influential psychoanalytic theorist.

366 quotes

"The child's life is simple, his understanding is direct, but his soul is complex and deep."
Education
"Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands."
Family
"Love is not as important as food, but it is as necessary."
Love
"Imagination is more important than knowledge."
Imagination
"To be a human being is to be in a state of tension between your appetites and your higher self."
Wisdom
"We are dying from overthinking. We are slowly killing ourselves by drowning in our thoughts."
Life
"The more we live by our intellect, the less we understand the meaning of life."
Philosophy
"Happiness can be real only if shared."
Happiness
"Only the fairy tale, which to the child is not just a story but the deepest kind of truth, can adequately explain to him the human condition."
Literature
"A child's personality is formed long before he ever gets to school."
Education
"Symbolic immortality is the only real immortality."
Death
"In order to think clearly, a person must first understand his limitations."
Knowledge
"The inner world of imagination is crucial to the development of a child's sense of self."
Creativity
"It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a very limited time on earth and that we will almost certainly die before we ever accomplish everything we want to do that we can begin to live."
Time
"Nothing is worth doing unless the consequences of failure would be irreversible."
Courage
"Man's life is the only one we really know anything about."
Life
"To truly understand life, one must understand the unconscious mind."
Wisdom
"The more one thinks about the sufferings of the world, the more superficial such thinking becomes."
Philosophy
"The child's understanding of the world is very different from the adult's, and we must respect that."
Education
"Learning to tolerate ambiguity is one of the most important aspects of education."
Knowledge
"True morality comes not from rules but from understanding."
Wisdom
"The greatest achievement in life is to help others achieve their dreams."
Success
"Anxiety is the price we pay for consciousness."
Fear
"The act of reading is itself a form of self-expression."
Literature
"We are shaped by every experience, every person, every book we read."
Change
"To live a meaningful life, we must understand our own nature."
Wisdom
"The ability to adapt is the mark of true strength."
Strength
"Children need to understand that life has meaning and purpose."
Hope
"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives."
Relationships
"Learning is not about acquiring information; it's about developing understanding."
Education