Who said "We are the same under our skins"?

This quote is attributed to Therem Harth rem ir Estraven.

We are the same under our skins - Therem Harth rem ir Estraven

"We are the same under our skins"

Therem Harth rem ir Estraven Kindness

Character in The Left Hand of Darkness

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"Light is the left hand of darkness"

"A man who won't work cannot love, and a man who won't love is a man who won't work"

"You cannot buy the wind"

"Shame is a barrier to love"

"A good man treats his wife with respect."

"Kindness always comes back around."

"The power of a smile can change everything."

"Kindness is weakness to some. Not to me."