Ann Landers

Advice Columnist American 1918 – 2002

Influential advice columnist who shaped American cultural discourse.

380 quotes

"The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life."
Love
"Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting - it means choosing to move forward."
Peace
"If you're always right, you're never learning."
Education
"The most effective leaders are those who make others feel important."
Leadership
"You cannot pour from an empty cup."
Health
"The real success in life is doing what you believe is right."
Success
"Children are not born with the ability to love - they learn it from watching you."
Family
"If everyone threw their problems in a pile, you'd pick yours back up."
"The saddest words are: 'If only I had known.'"
Wisdom
"Integrity is doing the right thing even when nobody's watching."
"The secret to happiness is learning to be content with what you have while working toward what you want."
Happiness
"A lie has a short shelf life; the truth is forever."
Truth
"You cannot make someone love you by becoming smaller or dimmer."
"The greatest investment you can make is in yourself."
Education
"If you're not growing, you're dying."
Change
"The price of freedom is eternal vigilance."
Freedom
"Most people are too busy making a living to make a life."
Work
"Your values determine your decisions, and your decisions determine your destiny."
Philosophy
"The best apology is changed behavior."
Relationships
"If you want to be heard, listen more than you talk."
"Success is not about never falling down; it's about getting back up every time."
Perseverance
"The world doesn't owe you anything - you owe the world your best effort."
Motivation
"You cannot control the weather, but you can control your response to it."
Wisdom
"Courage is not the absence of fear; it's action in the face of fear."
Courage
"The most beautiful moments in life are often unplanned."
Beauty
"If you're waiting for permission to live your life, you're already wasting it."
Freedom
"The person you are becoming is more important than the person you were."
Change
"Criticism is easy; creation is difficult."
Creativity
"You cannot simultaneously hold a grudge and an open heart."
Peace
"The best inheritance you can leave your children is a good example."
Family