Costa Paul

Psychologist American Born 1942 (age 84)

American psychologist who developed Big Five personality trait model with McCrae.

391 quotes

"The wisest person in the room is often the one asking the best questions, not giving the best answers."
Wisdom
"Success is not a summit to reach but a practice to maintain daily."
Success
"In loving ourselves, we give others permission to do the same; in judging ourselves, we teach them how to judge."
Love
"The deepest happiness comes not from chasing joy, but from finding meaning in what we do."
Happiness
"True friendship weathers every storm because it is rooted not in convenience but in covenant."
Friendship
"Family teaches us our first lessons in forgiveness, whether we accept the lesson or not."
Family
"Hope is the discipline of expecting better while preparing for worse."
Hope
"Courage multiplies each time we exercise it; fear diminishes with the same exercise."
Courage
"Change is not something that happens to us; it is something we consent to or resist."
Change
"Education is the bridge between who we are and who we might become."
Education
"Knowledge hoarded is knowledge dying; knowledge shared is knowledge multiplying."
Knowledge
"Time spent with loved ones is the only time that creates rather than consumes wealth."
Time
"Truth is like a diamond; it can be examined from infinite angles and still remain true."
Truth
"Freedom without responsibility is merely another form of slavery—to our own impulses."
Freedom
"Peace is not the absence of conflict; it is the presence of harmony within conflict."
Peace
"Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished; perhaps we should learn from this teacher."
Nature
"Art challenges us to see what we've been too comfortable not seeing."
Art
"Science removes the mystery from nature; wonder remains undiminished."
Science
"Music is the mathematics of emotion, calculated perfectly in frequencies and feeling."
Music
"Faith is the belief that the invisible forces shaping us are worthy of trust."
Faith
"Leadership is the loneliness of making decisions others won't have to make."
Leadership
"Work becomes sacred when it serves something larger than ourselves."
Work
"Dreams are the soul's way of showing us what we're capable of becoming."
Dreams
"Humor is truth wrapped in a smile; it speaks what solemnity dare not."
Humor
"Beauty whispers; it does not shout. Those who listen deepest see most clearly."
Beauty
"Death reminds us that time is finite; this knowledge is either paralyzing or liberating."
Death
"Perseverance is the quiet heroism of the person who keeps going after everyone else has stopped watching."
Perseverance
"Gratitude is the practice of recognizing that we are never truly self-made."
Gratitude
"Creativity is the defiance of 'that's just how it is' in favor of 'imagine if...'"
Creativity
"Justice served without mercy is cruelty wearing a badge; mercy without justice is chaos in disguise."
Justice