Daniel Goleman

Psychologist Author American Born 1946 (age 80)

American psychologist who popularized emotional intelligence concept.

383 quotes

"Self-awareness is the first step toward any meaningful change."
Change
"Your emotional brain responds to the world 12 milliseconds before your thinking brain."
Science
"We teach what we most need to learn."
Education
"The quality of a person's relationships shapes the quality of their life."
Relationships
"Fear is contagious, but so is courage."
Courage
"The brain's ability to shift states depends entirely on attention."
Knowledge
"Authenticity in leadership creates psychological safety."
Leadership
"What we practice grows stronger in our neural circuitry."
Perseverance
"Emotional maturity means feeling your feelings without being controlled by them."
Wisdom
"The most dangerous leadership deficit is lack of self-awareness."
Leadership
"When we listen with empathy, we validate another person's existence."
Kindness
"Time management is really emotional management."
Time
"The primitive brain doesn't know the difference between real and imagined threats."
Science
"Hope is a skill that can be learned and practiced."
Hope
"Your social brain is fundamentally wired for connection."
Relationships
"The amygdala hijack is every leader's silent enemy."
Leadership
"Patience with others begins with patience with yourself."
Patience
"Failure is feedback, not identity."
Success
"The capacity to inspire is directly tied to your own emotional authenticity."
Inspiration
"We cannot change what we refuse to acknowledge."
Change
"The body keeps score of every unprocessed emotion."
Health
"Empathy is the antidote to cruelty."
Justice
"Your emotional intelligence is more predictive of success than IQ."
Success
"The mirror neuron system makes us involuntary empaths."
Science
"Stress that is unnamed is stress that controls you."
Peace
"Relationships of quality over quantity are the foundation of flourishing."
Friendship
"Your breath is the bridge between conscious and unconscious mind."
Wisdom
"Creativity emerges from emotional freedom."
Creativity
"The need to be right is the enemy of connection."
Relationships
"Self-regulation is the greatest gift you can give your nervous system."
Health