David Buss

Psychologist American Born 1953 (age 73)

American psychologist known for evolutionary psychology and mating strategies research.

381 quotes

"Literature preserves the wisdom of countless generations."
Literature
"Politics is ultimately about human nature and power."
Politics
"Understanding war requires understanding human aggression."
War
"We inherit not just genes but also culture and ideas."
Family
"The greatest gift we can give is our genuine attention."
Kindness
"Vulnerability is not weakness; it's the path to genuine connection."
Relationships
"We find meaning not in having everything but in valuing what we have."
Gratitude
"Jealousy is not a simple emotion. It is a complex state of mind that involves fear of loss, anger at betrayal, and sadness at deprivation."
Love
"The capacity to love deeply is one of humanity's greatest evolutionary achievements."
Love
"Sexual selection has shaped not just our bodies, but our minds, our personalities, and our deepest desires."
Science
"We are not blank slates. Evolution has written upon us in ways both obvious and subtle."
Wisdom
"Conflict in relationships often stems from evolved desires that are fundamentally mismatched."
Relationships
"Status and dominance hierarchies are not social constructs; they are deeply rooted in our evolutionary past."
Power
"The mind is not a general purpose computer. It is a collection of specialized mechanisms designed by natural selection."
Knowledge
"Beauty, in the eyes of the beholder, is often the eyes of evolution looking back at us."
Beauty
"We seek in our mates what our ancestors needed for survival and reproduction."
Love
"Deception in mating is as old as sexual reproduction itself."
Truth
"The emotions we feel are not random. They are precision-engineered by millions of years of evolution."
Wisdom
"Infidelity is not a modern problem. It is an ancient problem with modern complications."
Relationships
"We inherit not just genes, but psychological mechanisms shaped by our evolutionary history."
Science
"The desire for social status is wired into our brains because it once meant survival."
Motivation
"Our friendships, like our romantic relationships, are governed by principles of reciprocal altruism."
Friendship
"Commitment is difficult because our evolved psychology pushes us in multiple directions simultaneously."
Relationships
"The human mind contains multitudes—many of them at war with each other."
Philosophy
"Aggression is not simply learned. It is a strategy that evolution has encoded in our neural circuitry."
Strength
"We are drawn to people who display signs of genetic fitness, health, and the ability to provide."
Love
"The pain of romantic rejection is exquisite because it activates ancient survival mechanisms."
"Trust is a gamble we take based on ancestral patterns of reciprocal behavior."
Faith
"Attraction is not arbitrary. It follows ancient rules written in our biology."
Beauty
"We compete for mates, resources, and status because these competitions shaped who we are."
Power