Marsha Linehan

Psychologist American Born 1943 (age 83)

American psychologist who developed dialectical behavior therapy for borderline personality.

373 quotes

"Emotional pain is real and deserves to be taken seriously."
"Change is possible, but it requires commitment and practice."
Motivation
"Acceptance means acknowledging what is, without judgment."
Peace
"The mind-body connection is fundamental to mental health."
Health
"We cannot pour from an empty cup; self-care is essential."
Strength
"Vulnerability is not weakness; it is the path to connection."
Courage
"Effective treatment requires both structure and compassion."
Leadership
"Our thoughts are just thoughts; they are not commands."
Wisdom
"Patience with yourself is as important as patience with others."
Patience
"The opposite action skill helps us change our emotions by changing our behavior."
Wisdom
"Connection with others is essential to human wellbeing."
Relationships
"You have the power to choose your response, even when you cannot choose the situation."
Power
"Shame thrives in silence and secrecy."
Truth
"Hope comes from believing that change is possible."
Hope
"The most powerful tool is the one you actually use."
Success
"We must take seriously the suffering of those who feel suicidal."
"Anger is often a secondary emotion masking deeper pain."
Wisdom
"Build a life worth living, step by step, skill by skill."
Perseverance
"Radical acceptance is not passive; it is active engagement with reality."
Strength
"The therapeutic relationship is itself a healing force."
Relationships
"Flexibility in thinking leads to flexibility in emotion and behavior."
Wisdom
"Suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems."
Hope
"Your past does not determine your future unless you let it."
Freedom
"Effective DBT requires a team approach and consistency."
"Self-compassion is not self-pity; it is self-respect."
Kindness
"The goal is not to eliminate pain, but to change your relationship to it."
Wisdom
"Dialectics teach us that reality is complex and multifaceted."
Knowledge
"Behavioral change precedes emotional change."
Success
"You are doing the best you can right now, even if it doesn't feel like it."
Kindness
"Mindfulness is the antidote to autopilot living."
Peace