Rollo May

Psychologist American 1909 – 1994

American existential psychologist who emphasized freedom, responsibility, and creativity.

374 quotes

"Our society mistakes the map for the territory. We confuse information with wisdom."
Knowledge
"When we are fully present, fear loses its power over us."
"The highest form of human courage is the ability to be vulnerable."
Courage
"Authentic relationships require the courage to be fully oneself."
Relationships
"Loneliness is not the same as solitude. Loneliness is the pain of being alone; solitude is the glory of being alone."
Solitude
"A free person is one who has transcended the need to justify their existence to others."
Freedom
"The greatest anxiety is the anxiety of freedom—the realization that we are responsible for our choices."
Freedom
"To create is to discover who you really are. Art is the language of the soul."
Creativity
"The neurotic is the person who believes that if they try hard enough, they can control the uncontrollable."
Wisdom
"Commitment is the foundation of freedom. Only through commitment can we transcend our limitations."
"The person who has no enemies is not courageous; they are merely not engaged in anything meaningful."
Courage
"To face despair is to find hope. To acknowledge our limitations is to discover our possibilities."
Hope
"Evil is not the absence of good; it is the failure to actualize our potential for goodness."
"The symbols we live by are more important than the facts we live with."
Art
"A person without imagination cannot hope to understand themselves."
Imagination
"Personality is the actualization of potential. The more you actualize, the more you become yourself."
"The human being cannot escape meaning; even in meaninglessness, there is meaning."
Philosophy
"Power without conscience is tyranny. Conscience without power is impotence."
Leadership
"To love is to risk loss. The person who loves nothing is safe, but they are also dead."
Love
"The purpose of suffering is to teach us compassion. Without suffering, we cannot truly understand others."
"Authenticity is not about being true to some fixed essence; it is about choosing who you want to become."
"The future is not determined by the past; it is created by our choices in the present."
Change
"To be human is to be incomplete. Our incompleteness is what drives us to grow."
"The person who has never been afraid has never been alive."
Courage
"Art is the expression of the conflict between our authentic self and the demands of society."
Art
"Maturity is the ability to tolerate ambiguity without needing to resolve it prematurely."
Wisdom
"To destroy a person's dreams is to destroy their reason for living."
Dreams
"The price of freedom is the constant awareness of responsibility."
Freedom
"Imagination is more powerful than knowledge because it shows us possibilities."
Imagination
"To be in love is to be vulnerable. Love is the ultimate act of faith."
Love