Steven Hayes

Psychologist American Born 1948 (age 78)

American psychologist who developed acceptance and commitment therapy approach.

367 quotes

"You are not your past mistakes."
"Mindfulness is the antidote to automatic suffering."
"What you practice, you become."
"The present moment is always available to you."
Peace
"Your breath is a bridge between mind and body."
"Being human means struggling. The question is what kind of struggle you choose."
Philosophy
"Values give suffering meaning."
"You don't have to understand your pain to move forward."
Wisdom
"The capacity to grieve is the capacity to love."
Love
"Your thoughts are not facts; they're just thoughts."
Truth
"Resistance creates persistence of unwanted experiences."
"The goal is to be fully yourself, not a corrected version of yourself."
"What matters most is what you do, not how you feel."
"You can be broken and whole at the same time."
"The mind produces suffering; mindfulness produces peace."
Peace
"Your willingness is your power."
Power
"Being alive means accepting uncertainty."
Faith
"The goal is not a perfect mind, but a meaningful life."
Life
"You are the author of your life, even if not every page."
"Defusion is about seeing your thoughts rather than from them."
"What you're running from is often what you need to move toward."
Courage
"The present moment is the only moment you truly have."
Time
"Your pain has wisdom if you listen to it."
Wisdom
"Being vulnerable is not weak; it's real."
Courage
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf."
"The goal is not to escape suffering, but to suffer on behalf of what you love."
Love
"Your consciousness is the canvas; your values are the painting."
Creativity
"Being present is the greatest gift you can give yourself and others."
"Change comes from acceptance, not resistance."
Change
"You are always exactly where you need to be to learn what you need to learn."
Education