"In seeking knowledge, I lost my family, but I found myself."
Education
"I was raised to believe that the world was my enemy."
Faith
"The greatest power I ever had was the power to question."
Power
"My education was not just academic—it was a complete rewiring of my mind."
Education
"I chose to be educated, and in doing so, I chose freedom."
Freedom
"I learned that the mind is capable of believing almost anything if given no alternative."
Knowledge
"My greatest act of courage was walking away from everything I had ever known."
Courage
"The person I am now would never recognize the person I was."
Change
"I was educated by my struggle, not despite it."
Education
"I was not prepared for college, in any sense of the word."
Education
"Dad's letters had convinced me that I was not safe in the world."
Fear
"I had never been to school. I had never been to a doctor."
Education
"Everything I had worked for, I owed to music."
Music
"I began to understand that Shawn's abuse had a function."
Truth
"The skill I was learning was a very specific one: how to exist in a different world and return to the old one."
Change
"I had started a new life, and it couldn't have been more different from my old one."
Change
"Knowledge had changed the way I understood the world."
Knowledge
"I was not the person my father had tried to make me."
"Somehow I had to find a way to be myself."
Courage
"Education had become the most important thing to me."
Education
"I realized that I had always been in control of my own mind."
Strength
"My father had raised me to distrust the world, but I had learned to trust myself."
Family
"I had to choose between my family and my life."
Family
"Memory is not a neutral tool."
Truth
"I grew up the youngest of nine children."
Family
"My father believed the end times were near."
Faith
"I learned to read by myself, or I didn't learn at all."
Education
"My mother believed in the healing power of plants."
Nature
"I had never heard of the Holocaust."
Knowledge
"Shawn was my older brother, but he was not safe."
Family