Relationships Quotes

Connection, conflict, and everything in between. What our bonds with others teach us about ourselves.

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"Communicative competence is essential for meaningful social interaction."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Mutual understanding is the goal of human communication."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Understanding between cultures requires willingness to engage in genuine dialogue."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Authenticity in relationships requires vulnerability and mutual recognition."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"We can never fully know the other."
Derrida, Jacques
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"Man's desire is the desire of the Other."
Lacan, Jacques
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"There is no sexual relationship; there is only the discourse of sexuality."
Lacan, Jacques
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"The Other exists only insofar as it is represented in the symbolic order."
Lacan, Jacques
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"Language creates the distance that makes relationship possible."
Lacan, Jacques
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"The other is always Other, never fully knowable or possessable."
Lacan, Jacques
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"The Other is not an object but the structure within which all objects appear."
Lacan, Jacques
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"The subject emerges through the process of being addressed by the Other."
Lacan, Jacques
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"One's desire is always the desire of and for the Other."
Lacan, Jacques
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"The individual is not an end in itself but a moment in the dialectic of society."
Adorno, Theodor
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"The exchange principle extends even to human relationships, making all intimacy suspect."
Adorno, Theodor
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"The logic of reification transforms human relationships into strategic calculations of mutual advantage."
Horkheimer, Max
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"The logic of exchange infiltrates even intimate relationships, transforming love into strategic alliance."
Horkheimer, Max
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"The reduction of all relationships to exchange relations destroys the basis for genuine human community."
Horkheimer, Max
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"Strategic action, where we manipulate others, differs fundamentally from communicative action, where we seek understanding."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Intersubjective recognition is not a luxury but a basic need for human flourishing and identity formation."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Argumentative exchange requires what we might call charitable presumption—assuming others' good faith until proven otherwise."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"The struggle for recognition is not a luxury but essential to how people develop identities and self-respect."
Habermas, Jürgen
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"Every relationship is a power relationship."
Foucault, Michel
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"Dialogue and speech bring us together as human beings, not separates us."
Foucault, Michel
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"When you make love you're using four hands, four legs, your mouth and your brains, your heart. So if you don't have anybody to make love to, it's pretty awful."
Foucault, Michel
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"Between a man and a woman there should be eternal war and battle."
Foucault, Michel
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"Relationships are not the communication of information but the creation of intimacy."
Foucault, Michel
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"Genuine dialogue requires openness to the other and a willingness to let our view be transformed."
Gadamer, Hans-Georg
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"Dialogue is the highest form of human interaction because it opens us to the other."
Gadamer, Hans-Georg
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"To understand another person requires that we listen more than we speak."
Gadamer, Hans-Georg