Susan David

Psychologist South African-American Born 1968 (age 58)

South African psychologist known for emotional agility and psychological flexibility.

378 quotes

"Every emotion you suppress consumes energy you could use for living."
Health
"The stories that limit us are the ones we've stopped questioning."
Change
"Kindness to yourself is not indulgence; it is necessity."
Kindness
"Your identity is not fixed; it is fluid and evolving."
Philosophy
"The spaces between our thoughts are where wisdom emerges."
Knowledge
"Authenticity is not a performance; it is a practice."
Life
"We suffer not from our experiences but from the meanings we assign to them."
Wisdom
"The most liberating question you can ask is: 'Is this thought actually true?'"
Freedom
"Emotional granularity—the ability to name and distinguish emotions—is a skill that changes everything."
Education
"Our relationships reflect our relationship with ourselves."
Relationships
"The pursuit of control is what creates suffering."
Peace
"Vulnerability is not weakness; it is the birthplace of connection."
Love
"Your capacity for change is far greater than your current circumstances suggest."
Hope
"The mind is like a weather pattern—emotions come and go."
Nature
"Real courage is feeling the fear and moving forward anyway."
Courage
"We often sacrifice our authenticity for the illusion of belonging."
Friendship
"The greatest act of self-love is believing you are worthy of love."
Love
"Your discomfort is information; it is telling you something needs to change."
Truth
"When we stop running from our pain, we can finally run toward our purpose."
Success
"The space between who we are and who we want to be is called growth."
Change
"Acceptance is not the same as approval."
Wisdom
"Every setback is a setup for a comeback."
Perseverance
"The mind's job is to protect us; but it often protects us from our own potential."
"When you change your relationship with your thoughts, you change your life."
Life
"Resilience is built through small acts of courage, not grand gestures."
Courage
"Your emotions are not problems to be solved; they are information to be understood."
Wisdom
"The quality of your relationships is determined by your willingness to be seen."
Relationships
"You cannot shame yourself into change."
Kindness
"The most important conversation you can have is the one you have with yourself."
Solitude
"Growth is not linear; it is spiraling and sometimes messy."
Change