Relationships Quotes

Connection, conflict, and everything in between. What our bonds with others teach us about ourselves.

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"I am not who I think I am, and I am not who you think I am; I am who I think you think I am."
Charles Cooley
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"The self is fundamentally a matter of social organization."
Charles Cooley
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"Our sense of self grows from how we imagine others perceive us."
Charles Cooley
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"The looking-glass self teaches us that identity is relational."
Charles Cooley
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"The self is an ongoing conversation with society."
Charles Cooley
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"The self cannot exist without the other; we are interdependent."
Charles Cooley
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"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives."
Charles Cooley
"Relationships, like commodities, have become disposable in our consumer culture."
Zygmunt Bauman
"We speak of 'losing touch' because touch has become a consumer commodity."
Zygmunt Bauman
"We speak of 'networking' when we mean building relationships, revealing how transactional we have become."
Zygmunt Bauman
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"In social situations, we engage in impression management, controlling how others perceive us."
Erving Goffman
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"In social encounters, we follow scripts and conventions to maintain harmony."
Erving Goffman
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"Social interaction requires constant mutual adjustment and coordination."
Erving Goffman
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"The self emerges through dialogue and mutual recognition with other people."
Erving Goffman
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"The self is a collaboration between the individual and society."
Erving Goffman
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"The definition of self depends largely on how others respond to our performance."
Erving Goffman
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"The performance of emotion is a crucial aspect of social interaction."
Erving Goffman
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"We use performance to bridge the gap between our inner reality and social expectation."
Erving Goffman
"Power relations are present in every human interaction and social arrangement."
C. Wright Mills
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"Society exists only in the reciprocal relations between humans."
Georg Simmel
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"Secrecy creates a special tension in social relationships."
Georg Simmel
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"The web of group affiliations constitutes the individual's social position."
Georg Simmel
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"Exchange is the most primitive form of social synthesis."
Georg Simmel
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"The triadic relationship introduces the possibility of coalition and mediation."
Georg Simmel
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"Harmony in relationships requires a balance of similarity and difference."
Georg Simmel
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"Conversation is the pure form of social interaction."
Georg Simmel
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"Betrayal requires prior intimacy and trust."
Georg Simmel
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"The circle of intimates shrinks as society grows larger."
Georg Simmel
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"The presentation of self is a fundamental aspect of human interaction."
Irving Goffman
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"We all have a sense of what is appropriate in different social settings."
Irving Goffman