Relationships Quotes

Connection, conflict, and everything in between. What our bonds with others teach us about ourselves.

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"The person we present is a collaborative construction between ourselves and our audience."
Irving Goffman
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"Interaction is a cooperative venture where participants tacitly agree to uphold a shared reality."
Irving Goffman
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"The self is a social product; remove social interaction and the self collapses."
Irving Goffman
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"We use strategic ambiguity to maintain relationships despite contradictory or conflicting roles."
Irving Goffman
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"We manage impressions the way actors manage their performances on stage."
Erving Goffman
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"In social encounters, people engage in impression management to control how others perceive them."
Erving Goffman
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"When people engage in face-to-face interaction, they collaborate to maintain a shared sense of reality."
Erving Goffman
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"We each perform many different roles, switching between them as we move through different social settings."
Erving Goffman
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"Interaction is like a performance where each person plays a role and reads the cues of others."
Erving Goffman
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"Social encounters require a delicate balance of cooperation and competition."
Erving Goffman
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"We all have a front stage where we perform our public selves and a back stage where we relax."
Erving Goffman
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"The face-to-face interaction is the fundamental unit of social life."
Erving Goffman
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"Impression management is a universal feature of human social life."
Erving Goffman
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"Social encounters are collaborative productions where both parties work to maintain order."
Erving Goffman
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"The presentation of self in social interactions is both sincere and strategic."
Erving Goffman
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"Relationships require constant cultivation."
Herbert Spencer
"The function of rituals is not to fulfill an explicit purpose but to maintain social bonds."
Émile Durkheim
"Mechanical solidarity binds people through similarity and shared traditions."
Émile Durkheim
"Ritual practice binds participants to the group and reinforces collective identity."
Émile Durkheim
"Suffering unites people through shared vulnerability and interdependence."
Émile Durkheim
"The maintenance of social bonds requires continuous moral affirmation."
Émile Durkheim
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"I am not who you think I am; I am not who I think I am; I am who I think you think I am."
Charles Cooley
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"The looking-glass self emerges from our interpretation of others' reactions to us."
Charles Cooley
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"Social life consists in the interchange of thoughts and feelings."
Charles Cooley
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"Our sense of self develops primarily through interaction with those around us."
Charles Cooley
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"Communication is the lifeblood of a functioning society."
Charles Cooley
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"The self grows stronger through authentic connection with others."
Charles Cooley
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"We are all both mirrors and mirrors for others simultaneously."
Charles Cooley
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"The presentation of self in everyday life is a constant negotiation between who we are and who we appear to be."
Irving Goffman
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"Face-work is an attribute that is thought to be inherent in the person, as a rule."
Irving Goffman