Relationships Quotes

Connection, conflict, and everything in between. What our bonds with others teach us about ourselves.

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"We engage in the process of impression management whether we like it or not."
Irving Goffman
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"Encounters involve the management of expressions and the regulation of behavior."
Irving Goffman
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"Every social encounter involves a performance and an audience."
Irving Goffman
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"We protect our image through strategic revelation and concealment."
Irving Goffman
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"We negotiate our identity through interaction with others."
Irving Goffman
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"The maintenance of face requires a delicate balance of dignity and humility."
Irving Goffman
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"Interaction is a process of mutual influence and negotiation of reality."
Irving Goffman
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"We perform different versions of ourselves for different audiences."
Irving Goffman
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"Social life requires that we engage in a kind of mutual trust despite knowing that everyone is performing."
Irving Goffman
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"Relationships thrive when both parties freely choose their commitment."
Max Weber
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"Relationships require honesty, trust, and mutual respect."
Harriet Martineau
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"Relationships thrive on honest communication."
Harriet Martineau
"The more a man studies the individual in isolation from society, the less he can understand him."
C. Wright Mills
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"The presentation of self is not something that happens naturally—it is a carefully orchestrated performance."
Erving Goffman
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"When we meet another person, we are not meeting their true self—we are meeting a performance."
Erving Goffman
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"Every social encounter requires that we manage the impressions we give off."
Erving Goffman
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"When people interact, they are engaged in a delicate negotiation of reality."
Erving Goffman
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"We often use other people as props or foils in our performances of self."
Erving Goffman
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"We are each responsible for managing the impressions we give off, and others are responsible for managing ours."
Erving Goffman
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"We use impression management not to deceive others, but to cooperate in creating a shared reality."
Erving Goffman
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"The audience for our performances is not passive; they shape what we do through their reactions."
Erving Goffman
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"Every person has multiple audiences, and they must manage different impressions for each."
Erving Goffman
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"Every interaction involves an implicit negotiation about what kind of encounter it will be."
Erving Goffman
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"Society requires more than mere negative rights; it requires positive commitments to one another."
Herbert Spencer
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"The pursuit of meaningful relationships is what drives human behavior more than anything else."
Roy Baumeister
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"Rejection is one of the most painful experiences humans can endure."
Roy Baumeister
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"The self constantly seeks validation from others."
Roy Baumeister
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"We construct our identities through our relationships with others."
Roy Baumeister
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"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives."
Roy Baumeister
"The more that one group is integrated, the fewer suicides there are."
Émile Durkheim